Celebrating Natalie Jasper
1997–2025
An unforgettable mother, wife, daughter, sister and friend
Here’s to our courageous, radiant and one-of-a-kind Nat
A Newcastle girl through and through, Natalie Jasper – or Nat to those closest to her – spent most of her life in and around Heaton. She grew up in the loving warmth of her close-knit family: her Mam, Angela; her Dad, Dean; her brother, Joe; and her sisters, Abbie and Isobel. Not forgetting her cherished King Charles Spaniels: Molly (now passed), Poppy, and Teddy.
Natalie and Mathew, her devoted husband, went to the same school, but their love story didn't begin until they met at a house party in their late teens. Sparks flew as they danced the night away, and that fire only got stronger over the 10 years they spent together. They were overjoyed to welcome their beloved son, Oliver, into the world on (XXX) and shared a magical wedding day on 3rd March, 2024.
There was never a dull moment
Nat was the type of person to bring light to everyone around her. She exuded joy and warmth, even when she was faced with personal struggles. Nobody was immune to her unmistakable, cheeky laugh that could be heard from miles around and had the power to lift anyone out of a bad day.
“Her personality was electric.”
– Natalie’s best friend, Lauren
In her late teens, she and Lauren – her future maid of honour – got their first house together. Lauren fondly remembers Nat’s natural affinity for hosting the best house parties.
“She would be dancing around our living room until the early hours, full of energy and giggles. Those nights usually ended with pizza, garlic sauce and chips, then Matthew putting her to bed.”
– Lauren
The impact she had on others couldn’t be clearer at her funeral.
“Nat had so many close friends that it would be impossible to name them all. That deep connection she had with people was reflected at her funeral, where the chapel was filled to capacity, with many standing outside just to be part of the service and say their goodbyes."
– Lauren
A much-loved colleague
From selling sweet treats at Thorntons to pouring the perfect pint at bar jobs, Nat began her working life as she meant to go on: full of enthusiasm and always up for a good time. Her natural warmth, paired with her charming and sociable personality, made her a favourite in every staff room she frequented.
Nat found her feet at True Potential – a financial advice firm that Matthew also worked for – where she served as a diligent Deputy Head of Data Team from 2018. Everybody loved her there, and she always spoke about her colleagues with genuine affection, feeling a real sense of belonging.
A creative at heart
Not one to choose a single hobby and call it a day, Nat was drawn to many different artistic pursuits over the years. When Oliver was born, she came up with the idea of making beautiful personalised teething rings for other new mothers, which shows how kind and thoughtful she was.
Nat also became renowned for her nail art skills, which her friends would gladly volunteer to be models for! But that didn’t stop her from getting her hands dirty in the garden…
“Natalie loved to grow plants, especially strawberries, roses and sunflowers. They gave out packets of sunflower seeds at her service to plant in her memory."
– Lauren.
She really let her creativity and imagination go wild for her wedding, pouring her heart into creating personal touches like favours, table decorations and other heartfelt details to make the day as unique as her and Matthew’s love.
Remembering the best bits
When you spent time with Nat, you were guaranteed a fun time and lots of laughter. She lived life to the fullest, and her sparkling energy was infectious, whatever the occasion.
Lauren remembers the time they went to see one of Nat’s favourite artists, Paolo Nutini, and how determined she was to be right in the action at the very front. Not one to be pipped to the post, she raced past all the other gig-goers, “throwing side-eyes at anyone who dared try to get ahead of her.”
“She sang her heart out to every single song, and when Acid Eyes played, she shed a few quiet tears. It’s a memory that makes me laugh and one I’ll treasure forever.” – Lauren
Another special memory they shared was the night before Nat and Matthew’s wedding. The two set about the task to tie ribbons around the bridesmaids’ bouquets – a surprisingly mammoth task after a few too many Proseccos! They couldn’t stop laughing as they watched each other tie all sorts of weird and wonderful bows.
“That night’s sleepover felt like we were teenagers again, complete with matching pyjamas that Nat had picked out, a classic Primark special (her favourite).” – Lauren
The giggling pair stayed up late chatting to the soundtrack of ABBA, making sure all the last-minute tasks for her wedding were sorted. Nat was so excited – and it was worth every second of prep to see how happy she was on her big day. Nobody deserved it more than she did.
We miss you dearly, Natalie
“Sometimes it feels like you're everywhere.”
– Paolo Nutini, Everywhere.
Your unexpected and tragic death has left a hole in the hearts of many, but your light will live on in our memories forever. The laughs, the fun, and the love you poured into your family, friendships and everything you did will never be forgotten.
Paolo Nutini - Everywhere
